As many of you have probably noticed we have some new faces in the crowd. This coupled with some recent questions from some of the more experienced members has prompted me to post a reminder of DUNGEON RULES. (no Travis I did not say OLD, just more experienced)

I am asking EVERYONE to take a minute and read through these even if you are thinking I know them all already.

Dungeon Etiquette is a term generally used to define acceptable behavior at any S&M or Dungeon party. It is also a good guideline for any S&M play party. While rules are not what we are about, common sense dictates a need for standards of behavior at S&M and sexually oriented events. The purpose of this Dungeon Etiquette is to provide an understanding of acceptable behavior and to allow everyone as much fun as possible while remaining in a safe, sane and consensual environment.

SAF DUNGEON RULES

-All activity must be consensual. All activity must be consensual.

-DO NOT touch players or attempt to participate in someone’s scene without their permission. Permission should be obtained prior to the scene starting.

-DO NOT play in the same space being used by others. This is a distraction and may interfere with their concentration.

-No means No, if you approach someone and get a negative response take it seriously. Only the highest level of social interaction will be allowed. Dungeon parties are NOT part of the singles or swingers scene.

-Play at YOUR level of experience. Playing at your level will earn you more respect if done well, than if you play way above your ability and your scene becomes a fiasco.

-DUNGEON MASTERS are the law. One or more Dungeon Masters (DM’s) are always present. They are there to assure the safety of ALL. Follow their directions WITHOUT question or argument. Do it NOW… Discuss it later.

-Only DM’s are permitted to interfere with an ongoing scene and that only for safety reasons. If a scene is too severe for you please leave the area if you have a safety concern please notify a DM.

-Notify a DM before you play if your scene is different, unusual, might unduly alarm someone, or if you need some special assistance with a scene.

-Safety. DO NOT interrupt or interfere with a scene in progress.

-DO NOT crowd a scene. That means leave sufficient space for the players to use their equipment.

-Be RESPECTFUL. Comments about the scene, the play, gossip, or other noise can be a distraction to the participants and may end a scene prematurely.

-NO PHOTOGRAPHY WITHOUT PERMISSION.

THIS MEANS EVERYONE in the view of the cameras. (ie. Spectators and other players visible in the lens. On occasion a professional photographer will be in attendance. He take pictures only after receiving permission of those in the sight of the lens. If you take unauthorized pictures you will be asked to surrender the film immediately!

-NO DRUGS! Anyone deemed under the influence may be denied admission or asked to leave. You may be restricted from playing if you actions or demeanor indicates that you would be an unsafe player. This may be determined by a DM after consultation with the Head DM.

-FIREARMS ARE NOT PERMITTED AT DUNGEON PARTIES.

-If your scene involves drawing blood, please discuss safety and other issues including cleanup with the Head DM prior to play. Special precautions MUST be taken for such items (but not limited) needles, syringes or knives.

-Clean up after your scene. Immediately alert a DM if you can not do this or can not do it effectively.

-GENERAL RULES-Common Sense Rules

-Smoking is not permitted inside. Please go outside, or to the designated smoking area, if you are going to smoke.

-If your clothing (or lack thereof) is revealing you should bring proper garments until you are inside the party area. We may like to see you naked but the neighbors may not.

-Occasionally a scene may be too strong for you. If that happens please go to another area. There are all levels of play and we do not want to offend anyone, but the other players have their rights too.

-Scenes are not always as they appear. Something that appears dangerous to you may NOT be for those involved. If something disturbs you, ask a more experienced player or an off duty DM for an explanation.

If you have any questions or comments please let me know.

Thank you for your time,

Sir James
SAF Head Dungeon Master
MasterJames39@yahoo.com

The tragedy of cancer itself is alone such a hardship on a person but the overwhelming costs are even more of a burden to bear. The devastating word “Cancer” strikes fear in every single person around the globe. Everyone can understand the physical problems with it but not many understand the mental and financial troubles associated with it. This is our chance at SAF to show how much we DO care and help with the mental anxieties that “littlems” is going through and a perfect opportunity to alleviate some of her financial burdens as well.

We are asking everyone at SAF and our local lifestyle community to show there support for this worthy cause and come to this party. We will be offering up a virgin to public play at this event for your entertainment. Everyone (for a small donation) will be asked to participate in helping to break in this virgin and have some fun doing that at the same time. (Note: a special fund will be set aside for “littlems” that members in attendance to have access to that will go to “littlems” either way. So don’t be shy and use it if you feel the need to. That will be on a first come first serve basis and until it has been used up and is being donated by Miss Flower’s lil boy)

Miss Flower has graciously donated her sweet lil boy (the virgin) for this worthy cause and only wants to help “littlems” in her time of need as much as possible.

Miss Lori has so kindly donated her time and play space at SAF as well and wants to see as many people enjoying the time well spent and helping “littlems” with her staggering costs that she is having to go through at this time.

“missvamp” was the one that posted here on fetlife asking for help for “littlems” in any way we could by just sending letter of encouragement to a friend of hers. But that spark set off a flame that needs to be fueled even more and members of SAF and the local community are being asked to show the fire they have burning for friends of friends in distress.

Miss Flower’s virgin boy will be subjected to whatever she desires. Miss Flower will be the first to play with her boy in public and then play will be open to others (for a small donation) and all play will be negotiated between Miss Flower and any person wishing to play with her boy. The grand finale will be dueling knife play between Miss Flower and Lori on the virgin for everyone to watch and enjoy. But don’t even think that the fun will stop there. Our precious Miss Flower will also be in full bloom and has agreed to put her ass on the line as well. After her virgin has been played in public for the first time the naughty lil girl Miss Flower will be strung up and will be subjected to the same for a donation as well. Can it really get any better than this? Well maybe we can get a few more volunteers to enjoy being played by others as well. Come on people this is a great cause to have some fun at and help someone in despair.

All play spaces will be available to those that want to get there kink on. A party fee of $10 dollars (that’s right only $10 dollars) will apply and we will need door greeters and a few DM”s and a shuttle driver as well. Parking at Denny’s will be required as well from everyone in attendance. Im thinking that the food theme “foods from the Virgin Islands” would be appropriate.
If you are wanting to help out and volunteer as a door greeter, DM, or shuttle driver contact me directly here at Fetlife or at…..areostar01@aol.com…..a $5 dollar discount will apply to those that do volunteer as well as the same discount for everyone bringing a food item. I’m sure you all will find a way to put that discount to good use the night of festivities and donate it as well to enjoy your time well spent at the play station being set up. Now do the math…..$10 dollars to get in and $5 off for bringing a food item and if you volunteer another $5 off meaning you can get in for FREE and have some spending money to donate in other ways. Make that donation to play Miss Flower’s lil virgin boy, play the stunningly gorgeous Miss Flower or bid on a silent auction items or get plenty of raffle tickets to items being donated by your friends in the community. NO where will you find a better bargain to do what you do so well and enjoy so much! I do believe that when the rsvp’s do open you had better hurry and hope that you can be there for this event. This will limit out quickly I believe as there are just too many kind warm hearted people here that want to help “littlems” and will Not let this pass them by.

If you missed the last regular party this would be the perfect time for you to play. If you didn’t get enough kink at the last party this would allow you to get your fill as well. So please find it in your hearts everyone and come out and help someone in desperate need just to make ends meet from day to day.

Please note: This will be done on a honor system and there will be a tablet and pen at the play station set up for you to write down your name and donation and you can pick up an envelope and put your name on and your donations in before you leave for the evening.
If by chance you can’t be involved in any of the play for one reason or another and would like to donate items instead that can be in a silent auction or used in a raffle that would be great too. So start saving those nickles and dimes or other items to donate because your going to want to be a Part of this event.

We are hoping that “littlems” will be able to attend this event as our Guest of Honor and that “littlems” will see and feel in her heart that People DO Care in this lifestyle!

Please Do Not Miss out on this one time special event and mark it on your calendars and help by having fun and showing your support and open your hearts to someone that really needs it.
We do understand that this will only be a single drop of water in an ocean but a person with only a penny sees another with a nickle as being rich. So if you can skip starbucks one morning or do without that McGriddle for one day or even fill a bottle of water once to drink rather than buy it. That will help you to feel a better person and put a smile on someones face that really has that need right Now.

Miss Flower’s lil boy
Dean

ps: Thank you to everybody for all the help that’s been put into this so far and further details will be forth coming

what was your school food?
Pizza for sure. everyone back in their school days was stuck on pizza.
jack in the box?
Taco Bell for sure.
brownies (ok, not THOSE brownies–no no no. Not the little girls and not the marijuana ones either. stick with duncan hines here. Geesh, be nice, ok)
chocolate chip cookies.
anything Mexican or bbq. BAck at UT “back in the day”, we did “all you can eat” Mexican or BBQ EVERY Sunday.
we ain’t looking for gourmet here. Nothing fancy. junk that kept you awake and got you through finals. Things you got for your best girl, or cooked for “that guy”. THings you ate after a big win. THings you ate after those damn aggies cheated and beat you one more time.

make this one fun. I am probably doing the pizza thing. No telling what Mistress Mean will make. Maybe she stayed sloshed during most of her school years, so she will probably
bring jello shots in her school colors. Now there is an idea

Travis
class of 2013

Approach love, music and cooking with reckless abandon

We will begin Leather Care 101 at 5:00. The class will last approximately and hour and a half. Bring your leather with you, because in the time following, Margaret will be available to work with you on the leather. We’ll have a pot luck time in between and then at 8:00… Erotic Leather Care. Now that you know the basics, Margaret will share tips and techniques for making it as erotic and sensual as possible. Wear your leathers boys and girls grin. Margaret loves as many demo darlings as possible for this one.

At 9, the regular SAF party will kick off. After this HOT workshop, show off your shiny new leathers and practice all that you have learned.

Regular party fees will apply. For anyone attending the early 101 workshop, we are asking for a $5 donation to assist with travel and lodging for the presenter

Huggs,
Lori

This is a great opportunity for current members to socialize between parties and for potential new members to get in those two munches required for membership.

Please RSVP to my personal email, to the list, on the Fetlife SAF group forum, or on the Fetlife event section so I can let them know how many to expect. If you decide to join us at the last minute or have trouble locating us, feel free to call or text my cell phone listed below.

Location: Los Cucos Mexican Restaurant
22390 Highway 249 (AKA Tomball Parkway)
Houston, Texas 77070
Date: Sunday, August 22, 2010
Time: 11:00 am
Website: http://www.axistem.net/loscucos/

At 9, the regular SAF party will kick off. After this HOT workshop, show off your shiny new leathers and practice all that you have learned.Regular party fees will apply. For anyone attending the early 101 workshop, we are asking for a $5 donation to assist with travel and lodging for the presenter.

Description
Join us for two exciting workshops on the fascinating art of leather care. We are thrilled to welcome SouthEast Leather Fest Bootblack 2009 & 2010 Margaret to town. Margaret will share two fabulous workshops with us.
1. Leather Care 101
2. Erotic Leather Care

We will begin Leather Care 101 at 5:00. The class will last approximately and hour and a half. Bring your leather with you, because in the time following, Margaret will be available to work with you on the leather. We’ll have a pot luck time in between and then at 8:00… Erotic Leather Care. Now that you know the basics, Margaret will share tips and techniques for making it as erotic and sensual as possible. Wear your leathers boys and girls grin. Margaret loves as many demo darlings as possible for this one.

At 9, the regular SAF party will kick off. After this HOT workshop, show off your shiny new leathers and practice all that you have learned.

Regular party fees will apply. For anyone attending the early 101 workshop, we are asking for a $5 donation to assist with travel and lodging for the presenter.

If you have any questions, please send a message to garysgirl here on fetlife or garysgirl719@yahoo.com

Margaret’s information:

A true southern belle who is slightly bent, Margaret is a submissive who found her true calling to service very early while learning to set a formal table in her grandmother’s home. She serves her community as SouthEast Bootblack 2010 along with enjoying personal and domestic service to her owners, Butch Lee and Buz. As a member of RSVP in Baton Rouge, LA; Margaret brings her love of leather with her to local parties as well as across the US during her travels. Her interests in the lifestyle are varied and she maintains an open mind and heart to all who cross her path. Her sense of protocol, etiquette and service began at an early age as she grew up steeped in southern culture. In her other world, Margaret is an Environmental Engineer and enjoys spending time with the loves of her life; Bruno, the chihuahua and Gatsby, the tom cat.

Bootblacking 101
Come and explore the art and skill of bootblacking. This class will present the basics of leather care and shine technique. Take a tour through a bootblack kit to see everything from the basics to the obscure. Bring a pair for hands on work as we walk through a basic high shine during the class.

Erotic Leather Care
When the shine becomes just a bit more… taking it from functional to foreplay, explore the sensual side of leather care and bootblacking. Join in the discussion of ways to enjoy your partners whether from the top or bottom to begin a steamy evening… or end one.

We will begin at 8:00 and will need shuttle drivers, door greeters and DMs. Travis will post our food theme. James and Beth will post requesting help so please donate an hour of your time to help make the party a success.

Please keep in mind it will be awhile until the next SAF party as the August party is moved to the 4th Saturday (8-28-10) so get your rsvp in to reserve your spot and come get naughty with us. Send your rsvp to safrsvp@yahoo.com
huggs,
Lori

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The shuttle normally runs from 8:00-2:00 and so there is still time to play. We sometimes don’t stop until the sun comes up…well at least some of you don’t.

Please plan on joining us because it will be a while until the party in August.

Our 3rd Saturday party is moving so we can all celebrate with Breutanan for her birthday in August…The August SAF party will be on the 28th.

Of course we will need DMs and please check with James if you can do this and just need some training. I am hoping the same people who do it at every party gets some help in July. We will also need door greeters and please check with Mya for scheduling.

Door greeter is fun and when you are socializing in the front room you can greet guests… Lori

Travis has announced our food theme “Bring whatever the fuck you wanna bring” so there you have it. After all it does get you a discount off the door donation not to mention everyone asking who made that dish, I must have the recipe. Speaking of discounts, you also get a discount by offering up your time to help. We need door greeters and DM’s and I am sure more will be said about that in upcoming emails. It really does help so please volunteer.

Let’s do a dress theme this month, it is kind of different but let’s do textures, it can be leather, feather, vinyl, cotton, fur, spandex, kinda like “Whatever the fuck you want to wear” be creative and see how many people will mention the texture of what you have on. One last thing, there have been many who have contacted my about helping my son on his trip. Please feel free to come up and let me know what you have in mind. Thank you again for your kindness.

Please RSVP to safrsvp@yahoo.com and if you cant make it, hope to see you on the 3rd Saturday.
huggs,
Lori

The theme to this party is “Strap on Play” as the Lovely Mistress Ella (aka: Mistress many Cocks) will be coming to SAF to do a demo. Ella is a long time (but still VERY young) Houston Mistress, with not only great beauty but also wonderful skills as a presenter. This workshop will deal with Strap on play both for subs being the recipient and Doms being the recipient.

We have done a lot of joking and kidding about strap on play on this list. Well here is the time to watch and learn. Trust me you will enjoy this even if you never try it. But i suspect it will open some eyes (ok, maybe some other body parts as well) of some of our members.

Show up and make Mistress Ella feel at home, and watch a great demo/presentation. By the way, you NEVER know WHO the demo bottom for these things will be. (maybe a surprise in store for some of you).

There will be a food theme as well. In honor of “those members” of SAF, i almost suggested Soy foods, as April is national soy foods month. But then I decided no one likes “them” anyway,their mother dresses them funny, and they are not “real Texans”, so why make ourselves miserable to make a few yankees happy.

So I checked, double checked, re-checked my double checking and found that April is “National Make whatever the fuck you want to make” food month. (hey it’s true. Would i lie to you guys. ) So this month, bring something you love to eat, and trust me, if you love it, others will to. Fun chicken, beef, (or yogurt, soy, satan, and other assorted weeds and grasses). It is national egg month, so make an egg salad. Maybe i will make New Mexico style enchiladas and the red ones have eggs on top. Have fun with this. Make something special.

Mistress Ella is a special Lady. Lets show her how special our parties are.

Second point. Lets start off April the right way. Our own very special and very loved Lori is trying to give her son Nicholas a great gift by sending him on a once in a life time type school trip. We already have an auction planned for the May party, that I know each of you will want to help with in some way. Here is another thing we are going to do. Starting at this April 3rd party, there will be a “Nicholas’ Trip Box”. (and no, this was not Lori’s idea, but she ok’d it). Each of you is encouraged to drop a little something monetarily in that box. No obligation, no set amount. It will be there for three parties, the two in April and the May party. Lets do what we can to fill it up.

Lori has given us an awesome club. I travel a LOT to other events and see lots of clubs around the country. There just are not many clubs that are as active and fun, and educational, as what Lori has provided for us. Lets show our love and appreciation by helping her help her son.

So show up April 3rd. (details coming soon on times etc). Park at Denny’s, bring great food, throw a few bucks in the Nicholas Trip box, and enjoy the demo and play hard.

I missed March’s party, and will miss the regular April party, so i will be at this one and plan to have FUN (of many kinds)

Travis

Approach love, music and cooking with reckless abandon

Contact jenny_pigtails if you has questions!

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