The first blogger from our membership has stepped up! Lala has selected a post from Lisa Marie’s blog that makes a good introduction. We have re-posted it below… we also have added “mia” to the Blogroll. Thank you, Lisa Marie! given « mia. Words… i knew i want this, she did as well. she was [...]
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Dominant vs Submissive – The Power Play
May 3rd, 2009
In this modern era, relationships are often clouded by power play, the attempt to have control; in other words, claiming the authority, who takes the driver seat (or) who is the decision-maker. But, for a relationship to grow & to withstand the test of times, a balance is to struck between the two. Who plays [...]
How to survive a kink event
May 3rd, 2009
Running away from the “vanilla” world for a weekend to cavort and learn with a hotel full of kinky people is a delicious idea, but keep in mind that it’s not just a vacation – it’s an adventure in energy-, money-, and time-stretching that isn’t for the faint of heart! Here are some of my [...]
Reality Sandwich | Pain and Pleasure
April 22nd, 2009
The relationship between pain and pleasure in human sexuality is as profound as it is complex. Each time I have sex I am struck by the ecstatic release of deep pleasure which ignites an equal experience of intense pain. I have long wondered what begets what, if it is actually the intensity of the pain [...]
Reluctant Partners
April 20th, 2009
Today I answer two letters that deal with the question: what happens when one of the partners in a desired BDSM scenario is reluctant for one reason or another? It’s a tricky one, but not unsolvable… Monday Advice: Reluctant Partners « Advice and Consent: Domme Delilah’s Blog
General BDSM « Duncans Thoughts
April 20th, 2009
This page gives you some links to very informative BDSM Pages. Some are about BDSM in ‘general’ others are about specific subjects. General BDSM « Duncans Thoughts
BDSM For Beginners « 2-Ez
April 20th, 2009
…a decent list of resources for the beginner interested in BDSM. Read more: BDSM For Beginners « 2-Ez
Island of Pain » Is BDSM a competition?
April 20th, 2009
I would say, with a holistic approach in mind, that BDSM isn’t a competition and if you enter BDSM because you want to compete, then you might be doing it for the wrong reasons. Competitions are an interesting phenomena within BDSM, they are fun to watch, they create a reason for people to get together [...]
